We've all made the mistake of jumping into involvement too quickly. By the time we learn the things we could have learned had we asked the right questions, it's too late. We're already in love, already expecting a child with a fool, or we find out this was not at all the person we thought they were.

Share with us the top three things you wish you'd known about your mate(s) before you got too involved, or perhaps gave up the relationship too quickly.

What questions should you have asked going into the relationship that may have had you going right back out the door? Or perhaps there were questions you should have asked to find out that someone wasn't really as bad as you initially believed, and your hasty judgments eliminated a solid romantic prospect?